The magic garden
Back in June of 2005, I had been aware of a lack of frank discourse over sex and sexuality particularly in mainstream media. I wondered if there was an audience for video material related to learning more about what was once fringe culture. I came up with the idea of doing a video podcast to interview interesting people and get their thoughts and feelings out on the internet. The logistics were pretty straightforward. I had already played around with trying to make a movie with a groups of friends so I knew some of the obstacles I would have to face. This would be equally low budget. The videos would be distributed using one of the many video broadcasting sites like YouTube. My notes lay dormant in the back pages of my website until now. Here are the ideas for the first eight episodes of the show that was to be called "The magic garden."
Episode 1 : Introduction to the magic garden
Doctor D. an instructor at a community college in the San Francisco bay area shares his thoughts on alternative sex practices. This once seedy underbelly has blossomed into a thriving community of practitioners ranging from adolescents to mature members. Learn the practices being practiced by the more and more Americans every day.
Episode 2 : Life of a male porn star
Adam A. shares his story on how a small town boy found his way into the career as an adult entertainment actor. Find out how this once shy member of a Midwestern community learned to tackle the world of the porn industry.
Episode 3 : Life of a female porn star
Life moves a little faster when you're a buxom star of your own movie line, produced by your boyfriend. Eve E. tells the story of how she wrestled with the idea of abandoning the moral traditions instilled on her by her parents and decided to explore her sexuality in the only industry where women earn more than men.
Episode 4 : Polyamory
Two couples and their lovers share their experiences explore polyamory. This growing lifestyle includes radio broadcasts, several websites and a thriving community where commitment doesn't necessarily mean monogamy.
Episode 5 : BDSM
Mistress M shares tips on how to broach the subject of BDSM with your partner. We learn the concept of safety words and the different aspects of bondage and pain.
Episode 6 : Online dating
We interview two single people looking for love online. They share their experiences, their thoughts and their recommendations. Learn the tools of the trade and demystify the mystique of terms like SWF, ISO and NSA from somebody people who actually use them. Get a paper an pen ready, this episode includes a test on your skill at acronyms.
Episode 7 : Exotic Erotic Ball
We follow a couple as they prepare for San Francisco's Exotic Erotic Ball. Get a glimpse of this sub culture from this couple who has been married 25 years and has attended every ball since its inception.
Episode 8 : Folsom Street Fair
The Folsom Street faire is a San Francisco attraction. Every year people come out for this event to become part of a community that is becoming more and more mainstream every year. This year we're there.
I later discovered Emily Morse, Violet Blue, Dr Carroll Queen, Dossie Easton and others and found my craving temporarily assuaged. If you're interested in the information outlined here, consider visiting one of the following site in addition to the ones linked in the body of this post.
- The center for sex and culture - An organization founded to provide classes workshops social gatherings and hands-on practical skill-building events.
- Good vibrations - A woman-owned, worker-owned sex toy and bookstore in San Francisco